July 11, 2012
Dear Tunku, we Disagree
by Dr. KJ John@www.malaysiakini.com (07-10-12)
I remonstrate which we go open with your personal views as great as harangue about a DAP. we did not especially similar to a assertions we done about a DAP in The Star recently. In any divorce, both sides have faults; as great as starting open with your side is nauseous as great as uncivilised of any mature person!
You done a giveaway choice to stick on them at your developed as great as comparison age. we would have reputed we knew what we were doing. If we did not, please, censure yourself though not others!
Moreover we know which we have been a Kedah Tunku of some standing, a great recognised corporate chairman as great as highly reputable Malaysian individual. Did we unequivocally cruise they wanted we to come in as great as redefine their organisational truth with your chronicle of democracy of a blue variety?
Did we unequivocally hold which we were not merely a trophy wife, most similar to a so many we see today? My comments have been not for a purpose of enchanting we in a open quarrel of difference though to request which we stop your tirades as great as return to a overlay of a polite multitude shift agents who have chosen to remain narrow-minded neutral. You can become an excellent example.
Dear Tunku, we was there when they feted as great as welcomed we in to their celebration at a Tropicana Club. In fact, we as well was invited to stick on their open photography session, as with RPK as great as others there; though we refused since which would meant which we buy in to their truth of hold up as great as for life; which we still do not utterly yet!
In fact, we am not ready nonetheless to be seen publicly with any domestic celebration for which matter, as we still wish to remain a polite multitude individual; as great as a giveaway spirited activist
So Tunku, do we cruise we have bee! n right away great over milk which has been spilt? Did we unequivocally not know about all these features as great as traits regarding a DAP from a distance, as great as prior to a marriage? Did we usually find them out after we have been in bed with them?
Learn to accept a Good, a Bad, a Ugly
Or, afterwards again, may be similar to in any marriage, we have to learn to accept a good, a bad, as great as a ugly; all as part as great as parcel of hold up choices we have already made? Such divorces have been not unequivocally halal in my lexicon; when a single celebration is a trophy spouse. If we could not unqualified a marriage, is it simply their error or was it not additionally to some extent your fault?
I cruise we all need to find ways to learn to determine to disagree, agreeably. To determine to remonstrate is regularly healthy. That is what debates similar to a MCA-Lim Guan Eng ones find to engender. They point to as great as concede a single to prominence disagreement as great as differences in perspective.
But, do we unequivocally need to use "the denunciation of hatred" as great as allot 100 percent of faults to a alternative side's perspective? Is which not rsther than simplistic a world view?
I right away hear Dr Mahathir Mohamad as well is we do a same thing. Is which not aged as great as rejected black-and-white politics? And thus we indeed conclude Lim Kit Siang for clarifying which he does not unequivocally hate a man, though rsther than his domestic philosophy. That is, even as most as Mahathir additionally hates Lee Kuan Yew as great as his domestic philosophy. Can we simply determine to disagree?
Does it not take domestic maturity of thought, involving one's heartfelt feelings, thorough of one's actions in hol! d up to determine to disagree, agreeably?
That is right away my usually interest to you, sir. Therefore, we am even pacific to horde a closed-door-no-media dialogue so which we can finalise your issues with a DAP, even if usually so which we can pierce forward as a nation.
My reason is simple: as most as we have no genuine love nonetheless for a DAP, we do cruise which they hold to some-more principles than many others, at slightest for now!
Therefore, for a sake of loyal national togetherness as great as moving forward as a nation, can we as a card-carrying former senator of a DAP stop this unnecessary airing of your side of a story, as great as especially to a mainstream media which is a pattern for disaster, as great as with bad domestic intent? In life, as we additionally know, a equates to additionally regularly justify a end!
In conclusion, dear friend, my unsolicited recommendation is greatfully simply resign from a DAP as great as return to a overlay of polite multitude as great as rejoin a quarrel against corruption. That vital issue is ignored by all domestic parties as great as we could do most with your specific leadership upon this particular issue. Your reputation as great as fame in which arena has no rival or foe though we right away appear to have mislaid which stress as great as relevance, ever since we became narrow-minded upon alternative issues!
In a meantime, we urge as great as hope which we will stop talking through a mainstream press or making any some-more open statements about your divorce with a DAP, as great as instead greatfully concede us, a Malaysian Institute of Development as great as Asian Studies or Midas, to "broker a pacific as great as peaceable allotment of superb issues".
Please hold me which we can still pretence which role as great as still have superb contributions to have this nation a improved democracy. We can still work to realize such visions through a polite multitude motions as great as movements. Please do not tat! ter as g reat as stick on us as there is most room as great as space for your leadership, especially in a anti-corruption movement.
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