Someone asked me to criticism about this issue. Sorry a little late. This is from The Starhere
- Over 33,000 couples separate up in 2010
- ..steady enlarge in a series of divorces over a 10-year period
- report showed that 0.22% of marriages between Malaysians elderly from 18-50 finished in divorce in 2010
- double a 0.13% available in 2000.
- 80% of a divorces concerned Muslim couples.
- based upon figures from (Jakim) as good as (NRD).
- 33,788 divorces as against to 207,553 marriages registered in 2010.
- notable enlarge from 26,432 divorces as good as 194,240 marriages available in 2008.
I think there is a little Gomen bullshit here.
First of all a mathematics is tak betul. The inform says 0.22% of marriages (ages 18-50) finished in divorce in 2010. OK. That is less than half a percent. Very good.
Tapi, if we check a calculation : 33,788 divorces / 207,553 marriages x 100% = 16.2% divorce rate in 2010.
In 2008 it was 26,432 divorces / 194,240 marriages x 100% = 13.6% divorce rate.
Isnt this very high? 16.2 out of each 100 marriages will end up in divorce. Membazir betul lah all that khenduri kahwin.
For more aged a Top 10 divorce rates in a world belong to these countries :
Amount
# 1 
United States:4.95 per 1,000 people
Puerto Rico:4.47 per 1,000 people
Russia:3.36 per 1,000 people
United Kingdom:3.08 per 1,000 people
Denmark:2.81 per 1,000 people
New Zealand:2.63 per 1,000 people
Australia:2.52 per 1,000 people
Canada:2.46 per 1,000 people
Finland:1.85 per 1,000 people
Barbados:1.21 per 1,000 people I got this chart fromthis site. Do check it out.
Well a figures above have been 'per 1000 people. It is not apples as good as apples. The US has a race of over 250 million people.
Coming back to Malaysia, it is obvious that we have been carrying a critical divorce rate problem, generally between a Muslims (read as Malays - dont dont think about everything is secular ok).
The Gomen inform says 80% of divorces have been between Malays. Even if Malays / Muslims have up 65% of a population, it would appear that a Muslims have been punching above their weight in a divorce courts. (65% of race but 80% of divorces).
At a same time, a non Muslims who have up 35% of a race furnish usually 20% of divorces. The non Muslims have been punching below their weight category. (35% of race but 20% of divorces).
But a non Muslims dont attend 'kursus kahwin'. The Muslims contingency attend 'kursus kahwin'. Obvious! lythe kursus kahwin is NOT working .
Why do I contend this? Because a Gomen inform says "steady enlarge in a series of divorces over a 10-year period".
I told we folks - a kursus kahwin is only a time wasting, money creation scam. No money no religion.
Maybe a little of we will not agree. Maybe a little of we will have a suggestion. Maybe we will indicate that to revoke a divorce rate between Muslims, why not magnify a kursus kahwin to contend 4 years? Make it similar to a grade course. Maybe if a kursus kahwin is extended to grade level, then we can revoke a Muslim divorce rate to match a non Muslims.
Some of we competence contend that 4 years is too long. Ok how about a 3 year kursus kahwin? Diploma turn only. Some of we competence contend that itshould not be marked down any further - no dual years or a single year "Certificate Level". A a single year or dual year Certificate Level "kursus kahwin" is not starting to help revoke a Muslim divorce rate during all.
And for those of we who think that adua hari atau tiga harikursus kahwin (where we can compensate RM80/= to lulus) is starting to decrease a divorce rate between Muslims, good we better go as good as take a cold shower. The "kursus kahwin tiga hari"is not working.
Why? Because 80% of divorces in Malaysia have been Muslim divorces. And a Gomen says there is a"steady enlarge in a series of divorces over a 10-year period".
Here have been a little suggestions that might help reduce a Muslim divorce rate :! < /div>
i. postpone seeking for a second mother indefinitely
ii. if we demand upon a second wife, wait a couple of years AFTER a first mother has died (preferably of healthy causes).
iii. if we have been seeking for a third wife, greatfully have certain we have permanent membership in Al Arqam.
iv. get a real pursuit to await a mother as good as a family - a single mother as good as a single family during a time
v. spend time with a mother as good as family - it is called marriage
vi. if we have been married, avoid ibu tunggal as good as dara tua - no make a difference how ugly a situation
Try to validate for Father's Day (which is tomorrow). This equates to we contingency have children who feel encouraged to sayang you. They will buy we presents, filch durians for you, buy cigars for we as good as other stuff similar to that.
These have been only a little suggestions.
Posted bySyed Akbar Ali
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