When the single reaches 50 or upon top of 40, there is the bent to see the benefaction from the viewpoint of the past. There is the great as great as bad side to it.
The great part is the benefaction is seen with the chronological perspective. There is the years of evolution taken in to consideration. Wisdom comes with age, they say.
Basically, knowledge from undergoing by events enables the single to anticipate problems, see destiny possibilities as great as opportunities, differentiate vital changes from teenager happenings, as great as the approach to residence or seize the situation.
While the bad part to it, we could be stuck in the past. There might have been poignant amicable change, to illustrate the glasses from the past might not be applicable for saying things today.
In the youth, we have use of to answer during the behind of the parents whenever they explain they have tasted salt earlier. We explain they customarily tasted the usual NaCl as compared to the many alternative as great as types of salts; KI, sea salt, herbal salt, kosher salt, etc. which we have tasted.
Anyway, we have been not about to get in to critical evidence upon the aged contra the brand brand new though to only share the repetition of the friend we see as applicable for the lady as great as immature of today.
When it comes to values, perspective as great as ethics, there should be no disproportion between the past as great as present. In fact, the aged school values still sojourn applicable as recipe of success. Perhaps somethings can be learned out of it.
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Our friend, Man as the nickname we customarily residence him with, is an architect which proposed as great as rose the tough way.
We tumble in to the Baby Boomer era (born 1946-1964) though conjunction fit the character of the Malaysian chronicle described as the tyro demo era or successive Gen X (born 1966-1979).
The early 80s recession sank in as soon as Man graduated from Australia. He finish up becoming the temporary teacher in Mathematics as great as English for the integrate of years. As we recalled, he taught during the afterwards ITM.
The entrepreneurial suggestion as great as the desire to be his own trainer was so strong which he eventually became the single after many number of years in the profession he was never gentle as. He eventually get to begin his own practise.
Coming from the afterwards center category Malay, if the Dato Keramat Kuala Lumpur community can be deliberate one, he didn't have the funding. He had already been skipping repaying of his MA! RA schol arship for many years. So he had to rely upon appropriation from the Singaporean financier.
It turns out he didn't get to feel similar to his own trainer though was dictated as great as pushed by the Singaporean.
Many years or decades later, as great as many tough knocks of painful experiences which had its cost, he can be described as settled.
The association he proposed with is his though he still harbours the goal to be landed with the big the single to infer his layer as an Architect or Planner (we have been not utterly certain what he is now).
Nevertheless, he has been around the block to be able to contend he has seen things as great as done things.
One thing about being around prolonged sufficient the single knows roughly all the shit, hanky panky as great as strange going ons in the industry. Ma! n can be awfully, though justifiably, sour with the approach things is going around down there in the internal office building industry.
But these days he is many concerned with the perspective problems prevailing amongst the brand brand new era of professionals, particularly the Malays. He lamented in the yahoogroups. "Gen Y sucks!" he complained.
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I was treated to brunch currently by the fellow professional consultant in Shah Alam as the amicable gesture, as great as for him to kill time before to his subsequent appointment.
His initial goal was for the drink after an downright walk around the site with his site staff of four Gen Y's trimming from 25 up to 37. Being the gentlemen of the era, upon the small persuasion upon my part, we staid for brunch instead.
Out of courtesy, the twenty-seven yr aged woman Quantity Surveyor was invited, as great as the 43 yr aged Clerk-of-Works. Nothing surprising so far.
But when we got in to the cars, the inconsistency of the era gap showed.
These immature professionals could not lead, suggest or recommend! even th e simplest of finish for the meal. Mind we being in the city of plentiful tasty halal food outlets, these immature as great as not so immature adults became sum morons when both of us asked them to collect the mark to their liking.Their indecisiveness was totally appalling; some-more so when all of them have had spent many of their operative careers in Shah Alam as great as the male that's going to provide us was their boss, the comparison partner of the firm.
So we picked the brand brand new outlet calledPindangin Section 10 which we had patronized the integrate of weeks during the behind of as the use was fast, flattering labelled as great as many importantly the toilet's purify as great as in perfect order.
True enough, the staff marched rught away to set the list for eight of us as great as inside of 10 mins the meals were served.
Now came the second annoyance.
These immature engineers talked nonsensically of their sparse issues; similar to football, futsal, computers, marriage of their colleague, etc. The woman QS kept still all the time to the extent of being bold to the guest.
These ridiculous Gen Y professionals could NOT exchange even elementary pleasantries to comparison practitioners similar to us, let alone having the deferential review with the Malay elders..!!!
They can describe ONLY to their interests; complete rapacity in my opinion. Not even the query upon their part upon any of the well-being to this elder/boss person. we find which flattering offensive..
The oldest of the Gen Y operative glued his eyes upon the hockey compare upon the TV shade during the behind of his boss. Can't even come up with any current or interesting topic to share with his boss.
To supp! lement i nsult, the trainer afterwards walked to the teller during the during the behind of of the emporium to pay the dish himself. These immature guys simply kept their eyes upon TV as if zero happened.
But cling to on, that's not the finish of it.
We got during the behind of to the site office as great as chitchatted accidentally for about 20 mins upon family issues. His staff which he had treated did not get during the behind of after some-more than half-an-hour after - yes, they got chores to do during the circuitously shopping mall to illustrate leaving their trainer in great palm of yours truly...!!!
Postponing their errand to take care of their trainer did not cranky their mind.
So the eventuality this sunrise was really an eye-opener for me.
I simply could not endure the selfishness, haughty as great as mindless gestures of the immature professionals upon the amicable undertaking - some-more so when all of us though the single fella we! re Malay s. The alternative male was an Arab connoisseur from the internal university.
Man
May 24th 2012
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Another gem of observation from Man the week later:
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While seeking by some plumbing blue-prints, this immature rsther than attractive operative peered over my shoulder grinning with the question,
'Bos hari ni kenapa rajin?'
That subject caught me off-guard. Took the integrate of seconds for my Intel Pentium X-1960 to process as great as retort,
'Aku NAMPAK rajin sebab kau malas! Cuba kau buat kerja kauwith which mechanism rsther than than chitchatting forever between your colleagues, than we would crop up to be'tak buat kerja'.
I did not contend the second judgment as what is written above, some-more to which outcome of sarcasm instead.
He gave the wily cackle to my reply.
I goal he would lay wide watchful which night thinking of my damning answer; though afterwards again he's from Y-Generation. Most likely he did not get to my point, shrug it in reserve as great as play futsal which evening or update his FB account....
Man
May 30th, 2012
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The subsequent day an additional observation:
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A immature woman QS from Johor got married dual weeks ago to the 33-year aged Contract's Manager of the developer who's hometown is in Pasir Mas, Kelantan. we could not have the trip to her marriage down south; nor had any goal to have the trip to Kelantan either.
She came during the behind of to work this week to face copiousness of teasing from all of us upon site - being the youngest of the lot, she's cheekily sporting with the smiling of the 'seniors'... until she mentioned which her brand brand new father had gone during the behind of to KB early this week in credentials for the groom's reception this coming weekend.
That's fine we guessed, until currently we learned which she will be receiving the bus to Pasir Mas tomorrow all by herself, whilst her family members will be traveling direct from JB upon the weekend. She was operative up to 6 this evening until we had to provoke her either she ever had the goal of getting during the behind of to KB for the ceremony!
She laughed halfheartedly, sighing upon the week finish chaotic report of an eventuality which any woman should treasure as great as cherish all by her life...!!!
It's pathetic & insane o! f today& #39;s immature alpha males to simply vouchsafing their wives finding their own ways, off all the places - to the out-laws home town...!!!
This is NOT any ordinarybalik-kampung rayaor school holidays, damn it. It's their marriage - how could this alien male being downright STUPID!
And we should listen to what her criticism upon the marriage cinema which I've yet to see?
'Malu nak tunjuk kat Bos, 'cos my father said which we look fat in the marriage photos ...!!!'
There's many some-more incidences before to HER marriage which it's utterly ridiculous to expand here. Suffice & bewail to contend which this lady got married to ! the TOTAL IDIOT, full stop..!!
Then again, who am we to judge rsther than than being the scold half-century busy physique & nosy aged man. we will keep we guys posted upon any brand brand new growth upon this Gen-Y couple.
Man
May 31st, 2012
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A friend forwarded the chain email upon the plight of the former 10A Malay tyro which went to Egpyt though was brought during the behind of since of the unrest.
The email ask for assistance with courtesy to her MARA scholarship. She is not allowed to lay for hearing till MARA clears the fee as great as alternative bills.
We suspicion it was strange since MARA office building is so noticeable, visible as great as accessible during Jalan Raja Laut as great as Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman in Kuala Lumpur. If she is the MARA scholar, the University would have sorted it out.
If not, she could arrange it herself rsther than sent email to strangers.
Man commented:
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Gen Zlagi lahsuckres-blues....!!!
With as well many options, alternatives & exposures from the Net navigation - these digital dreamers have been livid in creation decisions; confronting hurdles or receiving risk to their careers.
They have been simply afraid to fail - for fear of being laughed upon. They cocoon their thoughts, whi! lst thei r blogs might appear to be illusory - in reality the storyline could be an additional cut-and-paste; or as often mentioned - recycled!
Yes, they contingency crop up super-cool all the time only similar to their stoic digital characters - so most so which the moment they open their mouths, it's character destruction my fren - TOTALLY EMPTY from inside. Soulless & lifeless.....
Try out yourself. Ask these flattering zombies some thinking questions similar to what's their top 3 legal holiday destination, meals or simply sports. You will listen to copiousness of err, humm or even 'I dunno!' answers from them. Worse still - 'I can't confirm / select any.'
Then provoke them upon the conflicting sex features which they like, as great as we will not
get the straight answers during all. Unlike the time, even during 9 year immature we knew it's going to be someone similar to Raquel Welch or Ursula Andress or Jacqueline Bisset - zero less.
Man
June 7th, 2012
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Hmmm ... this is the era which will be the vital shred of electorate in the subsequent as great as destiny ubiquitous choosing to determine the care of the country.
As the pro-BN blogge! r, it mi ght not the many politically scold thing to contend though what is interlude us from doing so in the past, some-more so the present?
What me worry? Our time is impending the finish in coming years.
It is them which have to worry. They have to take up which shortcoming though they have been not ready as great as devoid of the right traditional values.
We will not be there or maybe they might not wish us to nanny them.
To supplement to that, their reduced sightedness or poor sense of history is rsther than scary.
Our goal is which we won't be around to see they gave away the nation upon the china platter to some insane ones which will fall short what have been built over the years.
Jangan marah though Gen Y still has none to uncover as great as explain in what was built.
Psstt Man ...You have most to contend as great as share. we think we should begin the blog. My guarantee to foster it here.
P/S Even how indignant as great as how most we disagree with Man as great as us, positively NO insults in your comment.
We make an effort to have Kadir Jasin, an additional baby boomer's blog-like comments here.
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