Fanbook, Fadbook or Facebook

A lot of reports have been published in the MSMedia these days about the disastrous or rsther than disastrous side effects of Facebook as well as other amicable media network upon era Y as well as Z.

They range from being amicable misfit in genuine hold up not having any amicable skills when in the genuine group to only plain uncertain courtesy seekers to those perasan or vain-port narcissist.

The droll thing about such reports in the NEWSPAPER, the PRINTED EDITION is it does not strech those they have been perplexing to address. Those who have been 24 by 7 online or rsther than longer online than paying courtesy in school or work!!! These FBs will not know the risk since they most expected won't worry with the sociological side of amicable networks.


All they wish is substantially to get some-more likes, have some-more fans than Justin Bieber as well as demeanour prettier than the subsequent doorway cat or wish to be perpetually continuous to their friends live any micro nano second than to know they essentially live in the residence with genuine people waiting for them to come down to dish or wash their boots or even throw out the thrash. A friend even complained her kids will take care of the virtual animals than take the dog out for walks!!!


It is not usually era y as well as z which have been continuous in FB. Even era X have been anticipating brand brand new life. Hot 40 FB for those 40 years who call themselves immature during heart as well as not worried about if their girl has faded! Hello is which for real? How most of these 40 yr aged fuddles will post their genuine pix sans the have up as well as next their chin for the rest of their fans to see huh? And since plan the get together similar to months ahead? Oh to concede them to go for the little boost as well as beauty as well as slimming system of administration most substantially no?


Social media is not to be blamed for formulating perasan hey I demeanour cold as well as ! voluptuo us as well as someone who is the Just Be, the half of the genuine Justin Bieber. Each of us wish to demeanour the most appropriate as well as it's the lie if any the single tells we they do not worry about their looks or their body profile. If which is the box the so called bea! uty cons ultants as well as the personal bathing consultants should only fold up right?


But amicable media does have us individualistic as well as lonely in the cyberworld. We have make use of of to think we have been lonely in crowded downtown KL with millions of migrants these days around us. And amicable media used to surveillance itself as making the single some-more sociable. Really? Look around as well as we see most continuous to their electronic cigarette dispensing cyber nicotine 'fag' gizmos, their bberry, iPod, iPad as well as it's not an irony such gizmos have been all 'i' in front since it focuses upon the 'I' the ME I am the centre of everything. And I am continuous to my virtual universe as well as communittee. The people around me have been only the distraction restraint my travel trail we can supposed.


Even drivers have been glued to their mobile devices! If we see the automobile in front of we swaying as well as delayed we can bet the fello is regulating the mobile, either reading or texting! The automobile manufacturer who invents the mobile device auto switch symbol will be the a single selling the most cars!!!


They contend which it is not reaching the destination which is important. But the journey along the way as well as the pit stops we have is the noted ones. Social media takes divided appreciating the universe around us. We have make use of of to peek outward the window to check the weather. Now, it's upon the screen.


We have make use of of to ask for directions as well as encounter engaging people as well as places. Now it's the GPS upon the screen.


We have make use of of to sing with frens whilst upon foot as well as get the g! reat lau gh. Now we plug the ears with earphones


These days, amicable media or SM is vouchsafing us see the genuine universe less. It's odd we have been all spending the outrageous lot to get 3D knowledge similar to examination NATGEO HD when we could step out as well as smell the flowers!!!


When radio was launched, it was taught to be the great amicable bonding for family groups as they would lay around the vital room as well as listened. Next came the simpleton box. Then atari as well as the mechanism games revolution. And as technology progresses, we found ourselves wired! to the gizmos than connect with the genuine people in the lives.


Perseverance in jogging, the mental fortify as well as mental woe go which extra mile is no some-more the plea when the walkman as well as iPod took divided the dullness as well as made exercise similar to taking the travel in the park! Unplug the earphones or switched off the tv shade as well as we can see the torturous faces of the people in the gym? Wrong assumption try as well as lope but the song or tv as well as see if we really persperate to take which 3 minute lope huh?


SB as well as all the 'i' centric gizmos have been here to stay. Is it the breakthrough similar to the walkman or pong game or mario brothers? It's indignant bird these days as well as droll the RSPCA have been extremely ease as well as still regulating birds to destroy, destroy, destroy. One day if the child uses the cat, or dog or dolly the bird as the rolling ball, who do we blame, indignant bird?


We have been still perplexing to find ways to balance this SM obsession. It leads to compulsive behaviour disorder the little contend as well as there is so most truth. Look around us generally in the lift any morning in office. You have someone checking upon their mobile, to review the brand brand new message or substantially go over the sweet zero repository ones!


It used to be gurls will check their have up as well as! gincu p rior to they lay down to eat or encounter as well as prior to they leave the table. These days, the mobile gizmo is the initial as well as final act during the table, right?


Men used to check their watches, right away they do only similar to what the gurl does with her device, true, hah?


Am I additionally the single of the guilty ones? Yes as well as no. Yes as throwing up upon headlines upon the shade having dishes alone replaces the hardcopy! Blogging upon the go? No since still era X who prefers the tough set of keys as well as during slightest the twelve inchi as well as 12pt font during slightest to see what I'm typing!


Connect to FB? Used to but afterwards we get tired of people posting in their wall the same ole tedious stuff. If they have been not commenting upon themselves they have been commenting upon others. So deleted all those similar to sites as well as left with ! about twelve fans upon my FB. The narcissism partial is posting the cinema taken upon print hobby shoot! 'Why do not we sell your pix as well as have the little money,' friends would urge. Too lazy.


Has FB made my hold up richer? Frankly no since noone ordered my pix hah which is not the goal to post but to let friends give me the little 'like's encouragement. 'Why do not we open your comments to everybody so we can improve?' is the correct request. But then, it might stop me enjoying my photography as well as the disastrous comments might cause me to stop photography!!!


Therein lies the uncertain me which SM is unable to help, simply since only as most as it allows me to inflate my ego, it additionally protects me from getting deflated! So it's kinda loyal SM creates us narcissist hah!


There have been those who need the fans in FB to give them which 'caffine' perk any time they wake up. Even blackberry as well as all those telco services have been enlivening us to combine the lives with their electronic devices with FB postings or bb postin! gs simil ar to 'What is the initial thing we do with your bberry when we awake or what is the initial word we type.'

Some might think these have been rsther than nice engaging ways to keep themselves relevant, some-more often than not, they have been only subtle ways of pciking up information about your behaviour!!!


Nothing is giveaway in this world! Even great uninformed air as well as surrounding we pay millions for which space as well as view. Check out the genuine skill leaflet as well as we get the drift!


So as well FB as well as SM sites. Even knowing FB exposes your hit phones in FB itself is worrying for the unsuspecting. We all pour out to contend approbation to all their queries since we wish to get to have make use of of the apps right? And in the process scapegoat the privacy!!!


Which SM sites do i love best? For zero to do as well as pictures, FB. For cinema Flickr if usually they do not charge over the giveaway pix. For genuine great veteran community Linkedin as well as the mom of all blog search engines Technorati. And which is about all t! he continuous universe in my SM space. Is which as well most to spin me in to the perasan vain-pot?

Being some-more the pleasing as well as abdominal human, would rsther than face the book than Facebook, encounter genuine blokes than blog, as well as go out as well as snap cinema than flikr over someone's else! Go live hold up out there afterwards we can blog about it hah!
YAHMEH!!!

Courtesy of Bonology.com Politically Incorrect Buzz & Buzz

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