Praise be to Allah.It is a single of a blessings of Allah to a Muslim which He enables him to quick in Ramadaan as well as to outlay its nights in prayer. It is a month in which good deeds have been multiplied as well as people have been raised in status, when Allah frees some people from a Fire. So a Muslim should essay to have a many of this month as well as a integrity it brings; he should hasten to outlay his life in worship. How many people have been deprived of this month since of sickness, genocide or misguidance.
The Muslim contingency have a many of his time during this month; he has an unavoidable duty towards his children, to raise them well as well as move them up properly, to titillate them to do all kinds of integrity as well as have them get used to which since a child will grow up in a demeanour to which his kin makes him get accustomed.
During these sanctified days, a father as well as mom have a role to fool around in creation a many of this time, as well as you can suggest kin a following advice:
1 Checking upon a childrens fasting as well as encouraging those who tumble short in this regard.
2 Reminding them about a real nature of fasting, as well as which it is not just giving up food as well as drink, though it is a means of attaining taqwa (piety), as well as which it is an event for sins to be forgiven as well as expiated.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah which a Messenger of Allah (peace as well as blessings of Allah be upon him) ascended a minbar as well as said: Ameen, Ameen, Ameen. It was pronounced to him, O Messenger of Allah, because did you do that? He said, Jibreel pronounced to me, May Allah rub his nose in a dust, which chairman who Ramadaan comes as well as his sins have been not forgiven, as we! ll as I said, Ameen. Then he said, May Allah rub his nose in a dust, which chairman who lives to see his kin grow old, a single or both of them, though ! he does not come in Paradise, as well as I said, Ameen. Then he said, May Allah rub his nose in a dust, which chairman in whose presence you have been mentioned as well as he does not send blessings upon you, as well as I said, Ameen.
Narrated by Ibn Khuzaymah, 1888; al-Tirmidhi, 3545; Ahmad, 7444; Ibn Hibbaan, 908. See Saheeh al-Jaami, 3501.
3 Teaching them a practice as well as rulings upon eating, such as eating with a right hand from what is directly in front of them; reminding them which extravagance is haraam as well as is damaging to a body.
4 Not vouchsafing them outlay too prolonged upon eating iftaar so which they skip praying Maghrib in congregation.
5 Reminding them about a situation of a bad as well as vacant who cannot find even a mouthful of food to quench a fires of hunger; reminding them of a situation of those who have migrated or have been fighting in jihad for a sake of Allah in all places.
6 These gatherings suggest an event to move kin together as well as defend a ties of kinship. This custom still exists in some countries, as well as it is an event to reconcile as well as mend damaged ties between relatives.
7 Helping a mom to hope for a food, as well as to purify up as well as keep a food fit for eating.
8 Reminding them to titillate qiyaam (taraweeh) as well as to hope for for it by not eating too much as well as to get ready in time to perform a request in a mosque.
9 With courtesy to suhoor, a kin should remind a family of a barakah (blessing) of suhoor as well as which it gives a chairman a strength to fast.
10 Allowing enough time before Fajr request so which those who have not prayed Witr might do so, as well as so which those who have behind their request until a finish of a night might pray, as well as so which any chairman might have duaa to his Lord as he wish! es.
< br>11 Paying attention to praying Fajr upon time in assemblage in a mosque, for those who have been compulsory to do so. We have seen many people who arise up during a finish of a night to eat, afterwards they go back to bed as well as neglect Fajr prayer.
12 It was! a pra ctice of a Prophet (peace as well as blessings of Allah be upon him) in a final ten days of Ramadaan to stay up during night as well as arise his family. This indicates which a family should compensate attention to creation a many of this sanctified time in you do things which have been appreciative to Allah, might He be glorified as well as exalted. So a father should arise his mom as well as young kids to do which which will move them closer to their Lord.
13 There might be tiny young kids in a residence who need to be encouraged to fast, so a father should titillate them to get up for suhoor, as well as encourage them to quick by praising them as well as giving a prerogative to a a single who fasts a total month or half of it, as well as so on.
It was narrated which al-Rubayyi bint Muawwidh said: On a morning of Ashoora a Prophet (peace as well as blessings of Allah be upon him) sent word to a villages of a Ansaar saying, Whoever proposed out not fasting, let him not eat for a rest of a day, as well as whoever proposed a day fasting, let him fast. She said: We used to quick as well as have our young kids fast, [and take them to a mosques] as well as have toys for them out of wool, afterwards if a single of them cried for food you would give him which toy until iftaar.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1859; Muslim, 1136 a difference in block brackets were narrated by Muslim.
Al-Nawawi said:
This hadeeth shows which you should train young kids to do acts of worship as well as get them used to that, though they have been not accountable. Al-Qaadi said: It was narrated from Urwah which when they have been means to quick it becomes requisite upon them. This is a mistake which is disproven by a saheeh hadeeth, The ! Pen is l ifted from three: from a child until he reaches adolescence And Allah knows best.
Sharh Muslim, 8/14
14 If possible, a father as well as mom should take a family for Umrah in Ramadaan, as well as which is something which will benefit them in a Hereafter, themselves as well as their family, for Umrah during Ramadaan has a same prerogative as Hajj. It is improved to go during a beginning of Ramadaan so as to equivocate a crowds.
15 T he father should not overburden his mom with some-more than she can bear of carrying to hope for food as well as sweets. Many people take this month to hope for whim foods as well as drinks, as well as they go extremes in that. This detracts from a benevolence of this month as well as goes opposite a reason for fasting, which is to achieve piety.
16 The month of Ramadaan is a month of a Quraan, so you suggest which any family gets together to review Quraan. The father should learn his family to recite Quraan as well as assistance them to understand a meanings of a verses. In a same gathering they might additionally review a book about a rulings as well as practice of fasting. Allah has enabled many scholars as well as seekers of knowledge to write books which can be used for preaching as well as training during Ramadaan; a books have been widely separated into thirty parts, so a single subject can be review any day, as well as this will benefit everyone.
17 They should be encouraged to outlay as well as check upon their neighbours as well as a needy.
It was narrated which Ibn Abbaas said: The Messenger of Allah (peace as well as blessings of Allah be upon him) was a many inexhaustible of people, as well as he was during his many inexhaustible during Ramadaan when Jibreel met him. He would meet him any night as well as revise a Quraan with him. The Messenger of Allah (peace as well as blessings of Allah be upon him) was some-more inexhaustible than a floating wind.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6; Muslim, 2308.
18 The kin should forestall! their f amilies as well as young kids from staying up late during night as well as wasting their time in things which have been of no benefit, let alone things which have been haraam. For a devils among mankind have been some-more active in this month in promoting immorality things as well as acts of immorality to those who have been fasting, during a nights of Ramadaan as well as during a days.
19 They should recollect a familys assembly in Allahs Paradise in a Hereafter, as well as a good joy of assembly there underneath a shade of His throne. These sanctified gatherings in this world as well as coming together to conform Allah by looking knowledge, fasting as well as praying have been o! nly a means which lead to attaining which happiness.
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